When it comes to exploring our sexuality and enjoying intimate moments, toys have become staples in the sexual repertoire for many of us. These delightful gadgets can add excitement, pleasure and new dimensions to our sexual experiences, but it’s important to remember that whilst they bring plenty of fun, we need to care for our sex toys in a way that keeps us safe and healthy.

Did you know that improperly cleaned sex toys can potentially harbour sexually transmitted infections (STIs)? In this article, we delve into the world of safe sex toy practices, including cleaning techniques, storage tips, what you need to know about using sex toys with partners, and the importance of regular STI testing.

Understanding the Risks: Sexually Transmitted Infections

STIs (also known as sexually transmitted diseases, or STDs) are infections that can be passed from one person to another during sexual activity. While STIs are most commonly spread through vaginal, anal, or oral sex, it’s important to recognise that sex toys can also harbour and transmit infections if not cared for properly. 

STI-causing bacteria such as chlamydia, gonorrhoea and syphilis cannot survive for very long outside the human body. However, viruses such as human papillomavirus (HPV), hepatitis B and herpes simplex virus (HSV) have been shown to survive outside the body (under certain circumstances) for several days or even weeks! 

Choosing the Right Materials: Consider STIs

Sex toys are made from various materials, each requiring specific care. Silicone, borosilicate glass and stainless steel toys can be relatively easy to clean as they are non-porous. However, porous materials like rubber or vinyl can absorb bodily fluids, making it harder to remove potential pathogens. For easier cleaning and maintenance, consider opting for non-porous materials.

Sex Toy Cleaning Techniques to Minimise STI Risk

Proper cleaning is the key to maintaining a hygienic sexual experience – but where to start?! Here’s a handy step-by-step guide on how to clean your sex toys effectively:

1. Read the instructions: Before cleaning, always refer to the manufacturer’s instructions specific to your sex toy. They may provide guidelines on the best methods to use.
2. Pre-wash: Rinse the toy under warm water to remove any residue or bodily fluids. If your toy has batteries, be mindful not to get any electrical components wet. 
3. Soap and water: Use a mild, fragrance-free soap or specialised sex toy cleaner to clean the toy thoroughly. Avoid using harsh chemicals, as they can damage the toy or cause irritation to your intimate areas.
4. Rinse: Rinse the toy with warm water to remove any soap or cleaning solution residue.
5. Drying: Pat the toy dry with a clean towel or let it air dry completely before storing. Avoid using paper towels or rough cloths that could leave fibres behind.

How To Disinfect Your Sex Toys

Sometimes, cleaning isn’t enough. For example, if you share sex toys without using barrier protection or if your toys have come into contact with an infection. While cleaning ensures surface cleanliness, some pathogens, particularly viruses, can survive the cleaning process and persist on the surface of your toys. 

Here are some disinfection techniques that sex toy manufacturers have recommended:

1. Submerge in boiling water for 10 minutes. Most bacteria will be killed by boiling water. Rubber and vinyl devices may be sensitive to heat and should not be boiled.
2. Submerge in a diluted bleach solution (1 part bleach to 50 parts water) for 3 minutes. Bleach may degrade or discolour certain materials, such as rubber and silicone, and the toy should be cleaned again after disinfection to remove any bleach residue. 
3. Putting your toy in the dishwasher on “sanitise” mode. Just be sure you’re not expecting dinner guests.

You should avoid these techniques in toys with electrical components which are not designed to be submerged. When in doubt, follow the toy manufacturer’s guidelines on cleaning and sanitation. 

Sex Toy Storage Tips

Proper storage helps to maintain the integrity of your sex toys and helps to prevent STI contamination. Here are some tips for storing your toys safely:

1. Separation: Store each sex toy separately to avoid material reactions or damage.
2. Clean and dry: Ensure your toys are completely clean and dry before storing them. Residual moisture can promote the growth of bacteria or mould.
3. Discretion: If you prefer to keep your toys discreet, consider using storage bags or cases specifically designed for this purpose.
4. Regular inspections: Regularly inspect your sex toys for any signs of wear and tear, such as cracks, discolouration, or changes in texture. If you notice any damage, it’s best to retire the toy and replace it to ensure your safety.
5. At-home STI testing kits: Despite taking all the necessary precautions, it’s important to remember that no method is foolproof. That’s why regular STI testing is crucial, even if you practise safe sex! Yoxly’s at-home STI testing kits provide a convenient and confidential way to monitor your sexual health. Get yours here. Our tests are designed to detect common STIs, including chlamydia, gonorrhoea, HIV, syphilis, and more. With just a simple sample collection and speedy, discreet shipping, you can take control of your sexual health from the comfort of your own home.

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Sex Toys and STIs – Using Sex Toys With Your Partner Safely

Using sex toys with a partner (or partners) can be an exhilarating experience! However, it’s important to prioritise safety and hygiene to prevent the transmission of STIs. So, what are the guidelines for using sex toys with partners?

1. Communication: Open and honest communication is key. Discuss STI testing, boundaries and preferences with your partner(s) before incorporating sex toys into your play.
2. Barrier methods: Using barrier methods, such as external condoms or internal condoms, can reduce the risk of STI transmission when sharing toys. Condoms can be placed over penetrative toys, while dental dams can be used as a barrier for skin-to-skin contact.
3. Cleaning between partners: If you plan to use the same toy with multiple partners, it’s essential that you clean and disinfect the toy thoroughly between each use. Follow the cleaning and disinfecting techniques mentioned above to minimise the risk of infection.
4. Non-porous materials: If sharing with partners, opt for sex toys made from non-porous materials, such as silicone, borosilicate glass or stainless steel. Non-porous materials are easier to clean and less likely to harbour bacteria or other pathogens that cause STIs.
5. Individual use: Consider using separate toys for each partner. This reduces the risk of cross-contamination.
6. Testing together: To maintain a healthy sexual relationship, it’s important for both you and your partner(s) to get tested for STIs regularly. Yoxly’s at-home STI testing kits are a convenient and discreet option for you to monitor your sexual health together. 

Always prioritise safety and open communication when engaging in sexual activity with any partner. By following these guidelines, you can enjoy the pleasure of shared experiences while minimising the risk of STI transmission!

Sex Toys and STIs: Safety First

Exploring our sexuality and incorporating sex toys in the bedroom can be incredibly fulfilling and pleasurable. However, the best sexual health practice involves cleaning and caring for our toys properly. By following the guidelines above, you can minimise the risk of STI transmission and ensure a safe and enjoyable sexual journey.

And remember, when it comes to your wellbeing, it’s better to be safe than sorry. So, let’s embrace the joy of sexual exploration while keeping our bodies healthy and happy! Order your Yoxly at-home STI testing kit today.